Welcome to the blog.
This is where I put words to the questions, reflections, and lessons – on healing, happiness, relationships, and how we grow through what life brings.
Some posts are sparked by joy, others by challenge, and many by the ordinary moments in between. My hope is that something here meets you where you are – with a thought, a question, or the right reminder at just the right time.
How We Love When We’re Healing
After we’ve been hurt, our heart learns to protect us. But with time, we can learn to love again from a place that’s both wise and open. This is a reflection on the many ways we show up in love, and how a cautious but hopeful heart can help us find the connection we long for.
Friendships and Relationships: The Longings and the Limits
Sometimes the hardest truth in friendships and relationships is that they care, but they can't show up the way you hope. Here's how to love yourself through that experience.
Should I Say Something? Or Stay Quiet?
What do you do when you want to say something... but you're afraid it’ll land wrong? This post explores the tension of deciding whether to speak up or stay quiet in those moments when you feel something deeply but hesitate to share it out loud.
Making Peace With Your Inner Critic Through the 8 Cs of Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy
What if your inner critic isn’t cruel, just scared? This IFS-inspired guide shows how to meet it with compassion—and finally soften the war within.
This Year, Choose Yourself— It's the Best Resolution You Can Make
This New Year, skip the resolutions and try something different. Truly choose yourself and learn how to prioritize your needs, honor your emotions, and live life true to you.
Lessons in Love: What My Best Friend Taught Me About Great Relationships
For the past five plus years, my best friend and I have been having bi-weekly conversations that have radically changed the way I approach my relationships. Here's what I've learned along the way.
Mommy Stuff and Daddy Stuff: Why We All Need to Work Through Our Emotional Baggage
"Mommy stuff" and "daddy stuff" affects us all. Discover how understanding and working through this emotional baggage can help you live a more authentic life.
If You’re Addicted to Self-Criticism, Do This
When you stand up to, argue against, try to silence, or conquer your inner critic, you lose. Here is what to do instead to effectively get a handle on your inner critic.
How I Grew to Love My Body– And How You Can Too
I grew up in the worst possible way that a young woman can grow up… Always feeling not good enough, not proportioned well enough, and not beautiful enough. This is my story of how I grew to love my body. And how you can too.
How to Deal With and Overcome Your Insecurities
You weren't born insecure. You learned to be insecure. Which means you can unlearn it. Here's how.
The Dos and Don’ts of Self-Care
What is self-care? Are we really practicing self-care when we say we are? And do you need a lot of time and money to do it? All of these questions, and more, answered here.
What To Do When Self-Love Seems Like a Far-Off Goal
Have you tried to love yourself? I’ve been in the place of “ugh, no matter what I do, I just can’t love myself” too. So today, I want to present to you three alternative places to start if you find yourself not being able to successfully do this thing called “self-love”.
Dating and Relationships: The 10 Miracles That Happen When You Learn to Love Yourself
There are many amazing things that happen when your self-love grows. Here are 10 miracles that you can expect in dating and relationships when you learn to love yourself.
3 Ways To Build a Happier Relationship This Valentine’s Day
Nothing makes life as happy as a happy relationship. From decades of learning and experience, here are the 3 ways that you can build a happier relationship this Valentine’s Day and beyond!
3 Things You Don’t Realize When You Are Busy Judging Yourself
Do you ever judge yourself? Criticize yourself? Speak harsh words to yourself? Here are the three important things you don’t realize when you're busy doing it.
Do You Need to Love Yourself Before Loving Somebody Else?
I doubt that anyone would argue that loving yourself isn't important. But is it necessary to love yourself before you can love somebody else?
Self-Love Languages: What's Yours?
You've heard of love languages... but have you heard of self-love languages? Take our quiz to discover yours and apply it to how you practice self-love each and every day.
A New Perspective on Self-Love (And How to Increase It!)
What is self-love, really? And how can you practice loving yourself more and more?
10 Ways Life Is Encouraging You To Practice Self-Love
The journey of life is one of learning self-love. Here are 10 ways that life is always encouraging you to practice it.
Notes for a Happier Heart
I write a monthlyish newsletter called Happy from the Inside Out where I share the things that have been sparking joy, offering new lessons, and helping me find peace along the way. I believe that sharing these insights can help us all grow, heal, and feel truly happier, more connected, and alive. If you’d like to make your inbox and your heart a little happier, subscribe here.