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This is where I put words to the questions, reflections, and lessons – on healing, happiness, relationships, and how we grow through what life brings.
Some posts are sparked by joy, others by challenge, and many by the ordinary moments in between. My hope is that something here meets you where you are – with a thought, a question, or the right reminder at just the right time.
How We Love When We’re Healing
After we’ve been hurt, our hearts often learn to protect themselves. But healing can teach us how to open again without losing the wisdom we’ve gained.
Surrendered Gratitude: Trusting Life, Even When It’s Hard
Gratitude is easy when life unfolds the way we hoped. And, some seasons of life ask us to surrender — to trust life’s path even when it’s uncertain, imperfect, or not what we would’ve chosen.
Being Sad Is Not Bad
Many of us have been taught that sadness means something is wrong. But often it’s simply a signal that something meaningful is being felt. And when we stop trying to fix it, something inside us often begins to soften.
This Year, Choose Yourself— It's the Best Resolution You Can Make
Every New Year invites us to become a better version of ourselves. But sometimes the most powerful shift is learning how to choose the person you already are.
100 Things to Be Thankful For (That We Don’t Always Think About)
Gratitude is often hiding in the small, ordinary details we forget to notice. Here are 100 often-overlooked things to be thankful for, big and small, to inspire your own list of appreciation.
What Do You Mask Your Vulnerability With?
The ways we protect ourselves from being hurt often become habits we don’t even notice. And over time, those same protections can keep us from the deeper connection we want.
Transforming Pain into Joy: The Magic of Accepting Our Emotions
Many of us believe that our thoughts and feelings cause unhappiness, but often it’s the way we resist or judge them that actually causes unhappiness. Joy often emerges when we embrace all parts of ourselves and our full emotional life.
The Truth About Urgency, To Do Lists, and Doing Too Much
Busyness often feels productive on the surface. But sometimes the urgency to keep doing and “get sh!t done” is actually a way of avoiding what needs attention inside.
Beyond the Surface: A Revolution in New Year's Resolutions
Our New Year's resolutions tell the story of who we are, where we've been, and where we're headed. Mine have shifted from chasing appearances to embracing kindness, connection, and authenticity. How about yours?
The One Question to Ask for a Happy Life
Happiness rarely comes from one big decision. More often, it grows out of the small choices we make every day.
If Your Life Feels Difficult
When life feels difficult, it’s easy to blame the circumstances around us. But often the deeper struggle is how we’re holding the emotions those circumstances are bringing up. Life is only difficult to the extent that you have difficulty with the emotions you feel.
How to Make Decisions From the Inside Out, Not the Outside In
It’s easy to make decisions based on what others expect or what seems most logical. But the choices that feel most aligned often happen from the inside out.
How to Achieve Your Goals Without Needing to Rely on Willpower
Willpower can help in short bursts. But real change usually happens when our goals begin to align with how our brain naturally works and with who we truly are.
Let Go of Resistance With These 4 Easy Steps
Resistance, despite popular misconception, isn’t a problem to be fixed or an obstacle to be eliminated. It's actually pointing you in the direction of where you need to go next. Here’s how to work with, not against, resistance.
Why Be Happy When You Could Be Open?
Happiness is often spoken about as the ultimate goal of life. And as we traditionally see it, it is an amazing pursuit... but what if I told you there was something even better? That openness — to all of life — may be an even more meaningful path?
Stop Trying To Find Your Life Purpose and Do These 5 Things Instead
Though waiting for your life purpose to drop out of the sky and into your awareness is unlikely to help you uncover it, there are some things that will. Here are the 5 things you can do right now to help you discover your purpose.
How to Be Your Beautiful, Wonderful, and Authentic Self
Being yourself is an incredibly worthwhile endeavor. Here are the things you've got to stop doing and the things you've got to start doing if you are to simply, fully, and honestly be you.
Made a Mistake? Here Are 5 Things To Do To Recover
No one is immune to making mistakes. Here are the five things you need to do to recover when you've made one.
How To Make Every Day A Day Worth Living
Every day contributes in a very big way to the kind of life you wish to create. Here is what I’ve discovered as to how you can make every day a day worth living, in 10 simple steps.
7 Powerful Ways to Learn From the Life You're Living
No matter who you are, no matter where you go, no matter what you do and who you do it with, there is wisdom awaiting you at every turn. Here are 7 ways that you can garner wisdom and learn throughout your everyday life.
I write a monthlyish newsletter called Happy from the Inside Out where I share the things that have been sparking joy, offering new lessons, and helping me find peace along the way. I believe that sharing these insights can help us all grow, heal, and feel truly happier, more connected, and alive. If you’d like to make your inbox and your heart a little happier, subscribe here.