WELCOME TO THE BLOG
This is where I put words to the questions, reflections, and lessons – on healing, happiness, relationships, and how we grow through what life brings.
Some posts are sparked by joy, others by challenge, and many by the ordinary moments in between. My hope is that something here meets you where you are – with a thought, a question, or the right reminder at just the right time.
Making Peace With Your Inner Critic Through the 8 Cs of Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy
What if the voice that criticizes you isn’t trying to hurt you — but trying, in its own way, to protect you? When we understand what’s beneath that voice, our relationship with ourselves can truly begin to change.
This Year, Choose Yourself— It's the Best Resolution You Can Make
Every New Year invites us to become a better version of ourselves. But sometimes the most powerful shift is learning how to choose the person you already are.
Lessons in Love: What My Best Friend Taught Me About Great Relationships
Over the last five plus years, conversations with my best friend have quietly reshaped how I understand love and relationships. Here's what I've learned along the way.
The Truth About Urgency, To Do Lists, and Doing Too Much
Busyness often feels productive on the surface. But sometimes the urgency to keep doing and “get sh!t done” is actually a way of avoiding what needs attention inside.
Mommy Stuff and Daddy Stuff: Why We All Need to Work Through Our Emotional Baggage
Whether we realize it or not, the ways we were loved — and the ways we weren’t — continue to shape how we move through the world. Understanding those influences can change how we relate to ourselves and others today.
What if "Don't let me down" turned into "You’re free to be who you are" for a whole generation?
Children grow up surrounded by expectations about who they should become. Imagine what would happen if, instead of being raised not to disappoint, children were encouraged to be free to be who they are!
If You’re Addicted to Self-Criticism, Do This
Many of us believe being hard on ourselves will help us improve. But harsh self-criticism often keeps us stuck in the very patterns we’re trying to change. And fighting it rarely brings the relief we’re hoping for.
How I Grew to Love My Body– And How You Can Too
Learning to love our bodies can be a long and complicated journey, especially in a world that constantly tells us we should look different. This is my story of how I grew to love my body more and more.
Why Your Inner Child Holds the Key to Your Happiness
True happiness is rarely about adding more (money, love, success) to our lives. Oftentimes, it begins by reconnecting with the younger parts of us who carry the experiences that shaped how we see ourselves and the world today.
How to Deal With and Overcome Your Insecurities
Insecurity isn’t something we’re born with. It’s something we learn — and what we learn can often be unlearned.
3 Steps to Stop Caring About What Other People Think of You
Most of us care more about others’ opinions than we’d like to admit. And while it’s natural to want to be accepted by others, that desire can often begin to limit how fully we show up as ourselves. Here are 3 things to consider as you navigate worrying about what other people think.
5 Ways To Overcome Self-Doubt
Many people experience moments of self-doubt, even when they appear confident from the outside. Here are five ways that you can manage self-doubt when you notice it.
Why You Compare Yourself to Other People (And How To Stop)
Comparison has a way of quietly stealing the joy from our own lives. Here are some thoughts on why do we do it, and how we can stop.
3 Ways You’re Sabotaging Your Happiness
Many of us want to be happier, yet we unknowingly repeat patterns that keep us from the very life we want. Here I look at a few of the ways we subtly sabotage ourselves — and what begins to change when we see those patterns more clearly.
What To Do When Self-Love Seems Like a Far-Off Goal
For some people, self-love feels natural. For many others, it can feel almost impossible. Here, I explore what to do when loving yourself feels difficult and offer a few alternative places to begin when that goal feels out of reach.
3 Things You Don’t Realize When You Are Busy Judging Yourself
Many people are far harder on themselves than they would ever be on someone they love. Yet we rarely stop to consider what that inner criticism is actually doing to us. In this article, I explore a few important things we don’t realize when we're busy judging ourselves.
5 Ways To Prioritize Self-Care in a World That Doesn't Seem to Care
Many of us live in a world that rewards productivity far more than rest. It’s no wonder that caring for ourselves can begin to feel like an afterthought. Here are some ways to prioritize self-care even when the world around us doesn't seem to care/
Want to Be Happy? Stop Doing These 5 Things
If you aren't currently happy, it’s likely that there are things that you’re doing that are standing in the way. Here are 5 things to stop doing if you want to be truly, genuinely happy right now.
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