Welcome to the blog
This is where I put words to the questions, reflections, and lessons I’m living – on healing, happiness, relationships, and how we grow through what life brings.
Some posts are sparked by joy, some by challenge, and many by the ordinary moments of life in between. My hope is that something here comforts you, challenges you, helps you feel a little less alone, or reconnects you with yourself in some small but meaningful way.
How to Stop Feeling and Believing That You're Not Good Enough
The feeling of not being good enough is surprisingly common. Yet many of us carry it quietly, believing we’re the only ones who feel that way. Here's what you can do to reduce the grip that this belief has on your life.
The Brain’s Negativity Bias (and How to Work with It)
Left alone, the mind often gravitates toward problems and worries. Learning how to work with that bias can bring more balance to our thinking and can change how we experience everyday life.
How to Reduce Anxiety: 3 Tips [Plus Exercises!]
Anxiety has a way of filling our minds when it goes unchecked. Here are some ways we can create space around those thoughts and bring some relief.
3 Mindset Shifts That Will Make You Happier
Sometimes a change in how we see things can open the door to more ease and joy. Here are three mindset shifts to consider if real happiness is your goal.
3 Ways You’re Sabotaging Your Happiness
Many of us want to be happier, yet we unknowingly repeat patterns that keep us from the very life we want. Here I look at a few of the ways we subtly sabotage ourselves — and what begins to change when we see those patterns more clearly.
You Think Your Most Important Asset Is Time… But It Might Be What You Carry Into It
Many people believe time is their most valuable asset. But the past experiences that shaped us often hold even more influence. Understanding that can change how we approach the future.
Is Positivity The Solution To Your Negative Thinking?
Many people believe the solution to negative thinking is simply to replace it with positive thoughts. But the mind doesn’t always work that way. Here, I begin to explore why negative thoughts arise in the first place — and what actually helps us relate to them in a healthier way.
If Positive Affirmations Don’t Work For You, Read This
Positive affirmations are often presented as a simple path to confidence and happiness. But for many people they fall flat or even make things worse. Here I explore why that happens and what tends to work better when the mind resists forced positivity.
Why Genuine Happiness Is Not An Accident
We often think of happiness as something that happens when life goes well. But genuine happiness usually grows from something deeper than good luck or good circumstances. Instead, there tend to be certain inner conditions that make lasting happiness possible.
3 Gratitude Mistakes That Can Actually Decrease Your Happiness
Gratitude is often described as one of the most powerful paths to happiness. But like many practices, the way we approach it matters. Here are a few common ways we tend to practice gratitude that don’t work as well, and suggestions on how to practice it in a way that genuinely supports well-being.
What Your Difficult, “Negative” Emotions May Be Trying to Tell You
Emotions like anger, sadness, and frustration often feel uncomfortable or inconvenient. But they rarely appear without a reason. These emotions each function as a signal, trying to tell you something important for how you live your life.
The Belief That Kept Me Unhappy
Many of the beliefs we carry about happiness were learned long ago and rarely questioned. Yet some of those beliefs are doing more harm than good, especially this one.
The 3 Mistakes I Made as a Happiness Seeker
When we set out to pursue happiness, it’s easy to assume we know what will bring it. Looking back, I can see that some of my early assumptions were misguided. Here are the three biggest mistakes I've made as a seeker of happiness.
Choose Your Hard — A New Approach to New Year's Resolutions
Every new year invites us to imagine a different version of ourselves. Yet many resolutions fade quickly once life resumes its normal pace. Let’s consider a different way of approaching change — one that begins with choosing which challenges we’re intent on facing.
How to Practice Gratitude Without Forcing It
Gratitude is praised as a path to greater happiness. Yet simply telling ourselves to “be grateful” rarely works on its own. In this article, I explore how gratitude actually supports well-being — and how to practice it in a way that truly helps.
Decision Making 101: How to Make a Good Decision
Life constantly asks us to choose between different paths. Some decisions feel small, while others shape the direction of our lives. Here are the 4 ways to make a decision you feel confident about.
Stressed, Worried, and Depressed – Here’s How to Manage Your Mental Health During COVID-19
Periods of uncertainty can stir up anxiety, sadness, and confusion, and the early months of the pandemic brought many of these feelings to the surface for so many of us. Here, I explore ways that we can care for our mental and emotional well-being during difficult times like these.
Let Go of Resistance With These 4 Easy Steps
Resistance, despite popular misconception, isn’t a problem to be fixed or an obstacle to be eliminated. It's actually pointing you in the direction of where you need to go next. Here’s how to work with, not against, resistance.
Want to Make SHIFT Happen? Here's How.
Some say that the road from here to there is a long and arduous one, but I disagree. Here are the 5 ways to bring to life the change you want to see in a way that feels more possible and less overwhelming.
Building Resilience: 7 Tips to Help You Access Your Inner Strength
We often need resilience most when life feels uncertain or difficult. Yet those are the moments when it can feel hardest to access. Here, I explore what resilience actually looks like in practice and how we can strengthen it from the inside out.