WELCOME TO THE BLOG
This is where I put words to the questions, reflections, and lessons I’m living – on healing, happiness, relationships, and how we grow through what life brings.
Some posts are sparked by joy, some by challenge, and many by the ordinary moments of life in between. My hope is that something here meets you where you are – with a thought, a question, or the right reminder at just the right time.
Is Positivity The Solution To Your Negative Thinking?
Many people believe the solution to negative thinking is simply to replace it with positive thoughts. But the mind doesn’t always work that way. Here, I begin to explore why negative thoughts arise in the first place — and what actually helps us relate to them in a healthier way.
If Positive Affirmations Don’t Work For You, Read This
Positive affirmations are often presented as a simple path to confidence and happiness. But for many people they fall flat or even make things worse. Here I explore why that happens and what tends to work better when the mind resists forced positivity.
Why Genuine Happiness Is Not An Accident
We often think of happiness as something that happens when life goes well. But genuine happiness usually grows from something deeper than good luck or good circumstances. Instead, there tend to be certain inner conditions that make lasting happiness possible.
3 Gratitude Mistakes That Can Actually Decrease Your Happiness
Gratitude is often described as one of the most powerful paths to happiness. But like many practices, the way we approach it matters. Here are a few common ways we tend to practice gratitude that don’t work as well, and suggestions on how to practice it in a way that genuinely supports well-being.
The Lie That Keeps You Unhappy
Many of the beliefs we carry about happiness were learned long ago and rarely questioned. Yet some of those beliefs are doing more harm than good, especially this one.
The 3 Mistakes I Made as a Happiness Seeker
When we set out to pursue happiness, it’s easy to assume we know what will bring it. Looking back, I can see that some of my early assumptions were misguided. Here are the three biggest mistakes I've made as a seeker of happiness.
Choose Your Hard — A New Approach to New Year's Resolutions
Every new year invites us to imagine a different version of ourselves. Yet many resolutions fade quickly once life resumes its normal pace. Let’s consider a different way of approaching change — one that begins with choosing which challenges we’re intent on facing.
Gratitude Boosts Happiness - How To Practice It So That It Really Works
Gratitude is praised as a path to greater happiness. Yet simply telling ourselves to “be grateful” rarely works on its own. In this article, I explore how gratitude actually supports well-being — and how to practice it in a way that truly helps.
Let Go of Resistance With These 4 Easy Steps
Resistance, despite popular misconception, isn’t a problem to be fixed or an obstacle to be eliminated. It's actually pointing you in the direction of where you need to go next. Here’s how to work with, not against, resistance.
Loneliness Is On The Rise: Here's How You Can Overcome It
Loneliness has slowly become one of the most common emotional experiences in modern life. Even in a world that is more connected than ever, many people feel profoundly alone. Here are some thoughts on why loneliness happens and what can help you begin to move through it.
Why Be Happy When You Could Be Open?
Happiness is often spoken about as the ultimate goal of life. And as we traditionally see it, it is an amazing pursuit... but what if I told you there was something even better? That openness — to all of life — may be an even more meaningful path?
Winter Blues: 11 Effective Ways To Overcome Them
Winter blues are more common that we think. If you are someone or know someone who doesn't feel like themselves during the winter months, these 11 tips for getting your mood, energy, and brain chemistry back on track are for you.
Stop Trying To Find Your Life Purpose and Do These 5 Things Instead
Though waiting for your life purpose to drop out of the sky and into your awareness is unlikely to help you uncover it, there are some things that will. Here are the 5 things you can do right now to help you discover your purpose.
How to Be Your Beautiful, Wonderful, and Authentic Self
Being yourself is an incredibly worthwhile endeavor. Here are the things you've got to stop doing and the things you've got to start doing if you are to simply, fully, and honestly be you.
Made a Mistake? Here Are 5 Things To Do To Recover
No one is immune to making mistakes. Here are the five things you need to do to recover when you've made one.
The Perfect Meditation Style For Your Mind-Body Type
Our minds come in many different shapes and sizes and thankfully, meditation comes in many shapes and sizes too. One great way to find the type of meditation that your mind will enjoy and that will benefit you the most is to consider your mind-body type. Here's how.
How To Make Every Day A Day Worth Living
Every day contributes in a very big way to the kind of life you wish to create. Here is what I’ve discovered as to how you can make every day a day worth living, in 10 simple steps.
Want to Be Happy? Stop Doing These 5 Things
If you aren't currently happy, it’s likely that there are things that you’re doing that are standing in the way. Here are 5 things to stop doing if you want to be truly, genuinely happy right now.
4 Tips to Turn Your Conversations from Mindless to Mindful
In conversation, mindfulness means the difference between a purposeless exchange and a loving one. Here are four tips on transforming your conversations from mindless to mindful.
12 Habits to Help You Live a Happier, Healthier Life
Heath and happiness are a function of how you think, how you feel, and what you do each day. Here is a guide to help you think and feel your best and do what makes you feel good - one goal, one change, and one month at a time.
I write a monthlyish newsletter called Happy from the Inside Out where I share the things that have been sparking joy, offering new lessons, and helping me find peace along the way. I believe that sharing these insights can help us all grow, heal, and feel truly happier, more connected, and alive. If you’d like to make your inbox and your heart a little happier, subscribe here.